Linda and her friend, Mary, walked through the apartment at the retirement village. It was the perfect space for a single adult who didn’t want to deal with the responsibility of home ownership. “There are a number of different units available, with a wide variety of amenities,” the real estate agent said. “Because this is a continuing care retirement community,…
Laura was worried about her 80-year-old mother. “She gets around well enough, but sometimes she needs help with household tasks, such as cleaning, grocery shopping, and laundry,” she told her friend, Debra. “And she claims she can’t afford to hire someone to help. But neither can I. And if she doesn’t get the help she needs, she may have to…
When we last met Jenna and Mark Livingston, they were hunkered down in St. Thomas, U.S Virgin Islands, waiting for Hurricane Astrid to pass. As they huddled in the town assembly hall, Jenna, an attorney, and Mark, a pediatrician, bemoaned their failure to adequately plan for the care of their children in the event of their death. Both age 30,…
Aunt Minnie may appear to be a little flighty and forgetful, but does that mean she is incapable of creating and legally executing (signing) a will? The answer is complicated. The preparation of an estate plan, which may include a will, trust, and/or other documents, involves many steps. Assets and liabilities must be identified and decisions need to be made…
No one likes to think of this subject but the reality is that anyone at any age can be struck down by injury or illness. Two of the fastest rising maladies in the United States are dementia and stroke. Incapacity may be either temporary or permanent. The issue then is who will step into a person’s shoes and manage their…
John Lennon once wrote: “Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.” This is a profound thought and it certainly applies to the areas of estate planning, unexpected death, a life-altering accident, unanticipated sickness, home care and assisted living. Regrettably, this lyric applies to Prince, the mega music star who recently died unexpectedly at the age of…
For anyone with aging parents or loved ones, the prospect of finding someone to assist that person at home when the time comes can be a daunting task. Even before that time comes, convincing a parent that they need help at home is a challenge. Most elders resist anything that threatens their independence and they fundamentally do not want strangers…
According to the Alzheimer’s Association, approximately 5.3 million Americans were living with Alzheimer’s disease in 2015. Women age 60 and over are considered at highest risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease. Alzheimer’s is a progressive form of dementia that causes problems with memory, thinking, and behavior. While estate planning is important for everyone, it is especially important to consider after a…
Were you aware that there are about 75 million people in the United States with disabilities? That’s about 25% of the population! Did you know that 53% of disabled people are over the age of 50? The U.S. Census Bureau has labeled disabled Americans the country’s largest minority population. Consider this story from a recent New York Times article: According to…